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The Celle Seminars – Page 64

(G.V.): I would like you to describe how your wife behaves day-to-day, I mean, what is she like in a non-crisis period? What types of contacts does she have?
(H.): My wife is the type of person who likes to make contact with people. She likes to approach people and I would say that she is capable of establishing good, positive relationships. At least that is what she tries to do, and usually she succeeds.(G.V.): That is not what I am asking. I’m asking about her behav-iour at home. Is she a normal person, or does she shout too much? Does she throw things around, or is she very passive? Is she accepting or intolerant? Does she show fear? Does she do crazy things?
(H.): She exaggerates things. As you can recall, I said she does things that I think are out of proportion.
(G.V.): Please give me an example.
(H.): The affair with the car was an example. When the crisis is over, she sleeps more regularly with the help of allopathic sleep-ing drugs. She sleeps through the night, sometimes eight, ten, or even twelve hours, regardless of how deep she sleeps. After she’s had this kind of sleep for a period of time, her whole attitude and behaviour becomes more balanced, more reasonable. The situa-tion I described earlier, which is really only something that took place in a fit of jealousy, should be seen differently. I do know, and this was touched on earlier, that my wife suffers because of her great social conscience. For example, she does feel that some-thing urgently needs to be done to make sure that starvation in the third world is stopped and that all nuclear power stations are shut down. This is something that she feels must happen now, and she must campaign for it now, because if it does not occur now, then we’ve only got a little bit of time before the clock strikes midnight. The other thing is that she is constantly being fed information by other people and that naturally reinforces her condition. Her inability to do something to prevent things from reaching this level causes disproportionate behaviour. I would even venture to specu-late that this is the source or cause of her fear. Consequently, she