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The Celle Seminars – Page 59

(F.P.): May I add something to that? There have been real scenes stemming from accusations that were really only my husband’s sick ideas. He thought I was going around with, or was inter-ested in, other men. This was an unbearable period of time for me. From the beginning of our marriage, my husband was always frightened of losing me. Therefore he tried to screen me and everyone else in my family from the ‘big bad world’; at least he made every attempt to isolate us. His jealousy prevented, or interrupted, any attempt we might have made to establish con-tact with the outside world, or any attempt others might have made to establish contact with us.
(G.V.): How old is the eldest child, and how old is the youngest child?
(F.P.): The eldest is twenty-five and the youngest is twenty. (G.V.): Your husband said that the moment the children did not need you anymore, you started doing social work and other assorted activities. How many years ago was this?
(H.): At the end of the seventies.
(G.V.): End of the seventies? That would be ten years ago. The youngest child was ten years old then?
(F.P.): Yes.
(G.V.): Why did your husband make the assumption that the children did not need you anymore?
(F.P.): It wasn’t the case that I suddenly departed from the house for the whole day and just left my children alone. All I did was attend perhaps a meeting or a seminar once a week in the evenings.(D.): For example, my mother was asked to be an honorary officer in the Presbyterian church. She worked in the church offices.(H.): That’s not quite correct. The situation was really that I was asked to stand in for a someone who had prematurely retired from the Presbyterial. I didn’t really want to do it, so I suggested that my wife might be approached and that she might like to be a stand-in.(G.V.): You proposed that your wife take the position, and she accepted?
(H.): She initially accepted for a period of six months.