skiing in the winter time with them. We get along really well because they accept it. But it hasn’t always been that way. Some-times when people would not accept my limitations, when they looked down upon me because I did not want to go skiing, I just didn’t tell them about my disease. Instead, I pretended that I just don’t like to ski. I guess I was kind of pressured from the outside. That really had an effect on me before, but now I really get along with them. I got used to it and they got used to me. Except for my thinness, you’d hardly notice my illness. I can do a lot of things, even some sports, like playing ping-pong or, if I’m feeling well, I can go out hiking. I get along with that. My limitations are mostly, socially being together with others. There was an age between fourteen and seventeen when everybody was playing soccer and I couldn’t join in.
(G.V.): What about friendships, girls and things like that? (M.P.): Yes, that was affected too because for a long time I didn’t grow; I was only like 155, 158 centimeters tall until I was eighteen. I look very young even though I just turned twenty-one. This is quite a problem, but I think that my character, my way of being, makes up for it.
(G.V.): Because you have a lot of friends?
(M.P.): Yes, I have a lot of friends and they like my way of being, and a lot of girls as well, so I get along with that.
(G.V.): What do you mean, you get along with that?
(M.P.): I feel disadvantaged the first time I meet a new girl because of my thinness and the things I can’t do; but as soon as I get to know them better, then things become more intimate and okay. I don’t think that my illness has been a big limit, only in the beginning when I get to know someone.
(G.V.): Do you have a girlfriend?
(M.P.): Yes, she is sitting over there.
(G.V.): Are you successful with girls?
(M.P.): It’s okay.
(G.V.): No problem?
(M.P.): No problem, at least no more or less than my friends.