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The Celle Seminars – Page 209

try to accept them. The biggest problem I have is when I first tell people about my disease because then they treat me differently. In school, for example, everyone would try to make sure that they did not stress me too much and that I was comfortable, but I’d rather be treated just like a normal person.
(G.V.): You don’t like to be treated specially?
(M.P.): Yes. Sometimes when I didn’t feel up to things, or if I felt incapable of participating, I felt that I should just admit it. But then sometimes I did things, regardless of how I felt, just so no one would take notice of me, so that I’d be considered ‘normal’. Sometimes I’d get mad about my limitations and about being treated differently.
(G.V.): In what areas do you feel limited?
(M.P.): Mostly in sports. I could never play tennis or windsurf. I would have liked to do such things.

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(G.V.): The previous question was aimed at trying to find out about his relationships with women. I’d like to see if he volun-teers any information. See if there may be some limitations in his relationship with women because of his disease.

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(M.P.): …that I would have liked to do, it was because of my weight and because I did not have the strength to do it. For example, I could not go out with other people to play squash or go running or whatever. There are other limitations on going out, like going to the Oktoberfest or to bars, or drinking beers. (G.V.): Would you like to do that?
(M.P.): Yes. I do go out now. I think my friends got used to my habits, to my limits, that I can’t drink alcoholic drinks or go