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Classical Homeopathy for Anxiety and Jealousy – page 256

G.V.: The constitutional Calcarea sulphurica patient is not an easy case to deal with. The remedy is not easily recognis­able by its mental-emotional characteristics. This patient does not know how sick he is, and will hide his mental state because he does not realise that he has a problem. He will not talk about it, but the information will come rather from relatives.

The main feature I have found in the mental-emotional patho­logy is an exaggerated sense of self-importance. There is a marked hidden egotism and we frequently see the traumatic effects of false modesty. Such patients go through life expecting everybody to appreciate what nice and clever people they are, and therefore are deeply hurt by people not paying attention to them or not duly appreciating them. They moan and complain and hold grudges if they feel that others do not appreciate them. This idea is central to the remedy.

Imagine a patient who has an internal wound which cannot heal, cannot close, and it oozes and suppurates. You wonder where all this pus is coming from day after day, week after week, or even year after year. The same idea may be applied to the soul which has been wounded and which oozes not blood but pus. There is something rotten inside the patient; a process of decomposition is taking place. The ego has been hurt and the soul weeps, but not in a healthy way.

Calcarea sulphurica is one of the remedies that have jealousy with hatred. A bad jealousy. They will do and say very bad things. It is actually one of the main remedies for jealousy! Some of the cases have a quite malignant jealousy.