You see emotional, not mental, collapse, and physical collapse. They can come back from their job and flop down, unable to express anything. They shut themselves in their room and from time to time will cry spasmodically, putting the pillow against their mouth so that nobody hears. Then they go to the dinner table and nobody will understand that they have been torturing themselves, as they do not want anybody to see what they are going through. This is silent grief, everything is kept inside and the only thing you can see is their sighing.
You see the lack of concentration and that they are not really pres- ent. Their mind is constantly thinking about what happened to them, he left me, he left me.
The nervus vagus, which is responsible for the normal function of the lungs feels cramped. Why? Because Ignatia has a specific action on the nervus vagus. They will say they feel that their chest is so heavy that they cannot lift it to breathe, but if you ask if they have had a grief to upset them, they will question if it is necessary to tell you all that has happened to them and then you will have to insist because you know exactly what the situation is. The moment you insist and they start to tell you more you will see the tears in their eyes. The tears come and yet there is still the discipline not to show their grief. They have to suffer by themselves. The affair is something that con- cerns them and nobody else and so why should they tell you?
This can be of course primarily because of a romantic disappoint- ment, but the pathology can develop also from the loss of a mother or father because often the relationship between our mothers and fa- thers is romantic. When a woman admires her father very much and loses him, she can go into an Ignatia state because it was almost an erotic relationship. Or a boy who loses his mother and it was almost erotic; these kinds of cases will go into an Ignatia state.
Children who are moved from their homes to another environment may also say nothing but will feel: I am losing my mother. Then Ignatia will develop problems with the nervous system. That means