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The Bern Seminars – Page 130

(Mother): Yes.
(G.V.): Did you tell him that you were going to work?
(Mother): Yes, and that I was going to do it gradually, and that the same thing would be happening: He would be staying with Harry on Monday and Tuesday, he goes to school on those two days, and Harry picks him up and he stays at Harry’s; and on Wednesday and Friday he’d be staying at school until the even-ing, unless Harry can pick him up: and that I was going to be busier doing work for this other person, so that I could make my own living. That is a big thing for he and I.

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(G.V.): You see what happened, she arranges, she talks very logically: “On Monday and Tuesday you will be with your father; Wednesday you will be in school all day; Thursday and Friday we’ll be together because I have to work, etc.” What John hears is quite a different story. He doesn’t hear the logic behind this arrangement, instead what he hears is: “My mother is now going to leave me…” and then John is overwhelmed and his state of health goes down. Ten days later, in this state, he is left vulnerable to contracting the chicken pox and within days it has gone to cerebellitis.
What is the remedy? Ignatia. You have to find out if John was already in an Ignatia state before he got sick. As you will see from the interview, John went into the Ignatia state the moment his parents got divorced and changed houses. Why do I know that? Because I asked her when John stopped eating fruit, and aversion to fruit is a keynote for Ignatia. You will see me ask her when John stopped eating fruit, and her answer will be: from the day we changed houses. I will then ask: “When did you change houses,” and she will reply: “When we divorced I took John to another house.” She does not connect these things with one another. She does not know what I am trying to get at, but she is giving perfect answers: “When was that?” “A year and a half ago,” that means that a year and an half ago John went into an Ignatia state. He lived in an Ignatia state with shifting, changing moods; sometimes he is elated, sometimes he is depressed. When