age five the child acts as if he were two or three, at age thirty he acts as if twelve, or sixteen etc.
Kent writes:
‘You will have patients to treat, where this slow development manifests itself in girls 18 to 25 years of age, who do things they did when they were children, and say things as they said them when they were children…They have not come to womanhood. They are late in taking on the activities and uses of the woman. They lack the prudence of the woman. They have not become circumspect and say things just as a boy or just as a little girl would say them. That is the dwarfishness of the mind.’
Sometimes you will see cases where the patient herself will tell you most emphatically that she does not want to grow up, that she wants to remain as a child, or even a baby in the protection of the mother’s lap. The world with its complications and society’s complex demands scare these patients to death; they do not want to go out and fight their corner. They really feel like children in the midst of grown-ups and do not know how to protect or defend themselves.
A tremendous anxiety neurosis may develop out of this state, especially if the person is pushed by his family or society to go out and act. This can be accompanied by inability either to retain food, or to swallow solid food, by tremendous inexplicable fear, constant weeping and the desire to be protected and stay at home. They have no desire to go to the cinema or to social events.
Any kind of enjoyment or amusement is unthinkable in their condition. They cannot bring themselves to laugh; the problem takes on a serious dimension in their mind, they can think of nothing else. You may wonder how they can exaggerate a small problem to such proportions. The more their mind dwells on the problem, the bigger it becomes.