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Materia Medica Viva Volume 12 – page 2693

and passionately. Hyosciamus jealousy overtakes and completely paralyses the person. He feels as if someone has grabbed him on the back of the neck. There is an indescribable feeling of jealousy coupled with paralysis and a constricted feeling in the cervical area. Nux vomica will show his jealousy fitfully and with great irritability; he will create big quarrels because of his jealous insecurity.
THE HUMILIATION
A dread of humiliation constrains their normal reaction to grief. Typ- ically, if an Ignatia feels she is going to cry, the hysterical element of the remedy will become apparent as she attempts to withhold the tears. She may seem to choke, gulp and swallow as her eyes brim with restrained tears. If one were to ask at such a moment if she feels humiliated by crying before another person, she would admit the fact. The dread of humiliation is tremendous in Ignatia. Humiliation cannot be tolerated. She will do anything to avoid it. She cannot stand pity. If she senses that you understand her emotional state and sympathize, she can become irritable and display a reaction very much like that of Natrum muriaticum. Expect the unexpected from Ignatia; your niceties may well be met by nastiness. In a similar vein, she often will not admit certain personal or familial problems that might prove embarrassing; e.g., financial difficulties. She erects a facade of properness from behind which she can cope with society.
SELF – CRITICISM
A comment I have heard Ignatia make is: I am not coping so well. Such an understated admission contains an element of self – criti- cism. These people will examine their situation in life and criticize themselves for not having done the right thing. Similarly they will criticize themselves for showing their emotional distress. This is a noteworthy Ignatia characteristic.