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(F.P.): And about eight years ago I left it.
(G.V.): And that caused a big conflict with your parents?
(F.P.): We don’t talk about it. We can’t talk about it.
(G.V.): Do you still live with your parents in the same house? (F.P.): No, I moved to another town. Eight years ago I fell in love, and I thought I would lose my boyfriend if I stayed in this group. I had to decide to stay or leave. At first I thought I could manage to stay with my boyfriend and also stay in this group, but I quickly noticed that I couldn’t live like that. I couldn’t talk about this affair with my parents. I wanted to in my heart, but they never could really understand me. It is a very strong religion.(G.V.): What kind of religion?
(F.P.): Christian religion, and it dictates how you must run your life. For example, you can’t just take any job you like. And if you change jobs or want to do something important, you have to ask the priest’s permission first.
(G.V.): Is it a priest or a committee?
(F.P.): It’s a committee. There are priests in the congregation and then there are shepherds and apostles, and the main apostle is the leader of the church. They don’t allow you to have a televi-sion or go to the movies at all.
(G.V.): Were you very attached to your parents in the beginning? (F.P.): Yes. I am more dependent on them financially than for other things, but I am always interested in how they feel.
(G.V.): You don’t want to do or say anything that will hurt them? (F.P.): Yes, especially in this case.
(G.V.): That’s why you never told them anything about that affair, even when you left the group?
(F.P.): Yes. We talked, but we’re of two different opinions. My parents wanted me to come back, and I told them that I couldn’t because I didn’t want to live like that anymore. We can’t reach an agreement on this issue.
(G.V.): Do you work now?