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The Celle Seminars – Page 278

(A.13): What astonished me was that she wanted a clear-cut line to the future, which reminded me of Silicea. She locked herself away, which also somehow emphasizes Silicea.
(G.V.): She said that all she wants is to be married. She even asked her boyfriend directly whether he was intending to marry her. She is very nice, one of those exceptionally sensitive indi-viduals who finds it very difficult to live in our world because she is too refined, too sensitive, too easily hurt, too vulnerable. Did you notice the difference between her and all the other cases?(A.14): She only spoke German.
(G.V.): Well, she could not speak English.
(A.15): She only spoke when you asked her and not on her own initiative.
(A.16): She seemed to be one of the only people who could be relaxed in the interview.
(A.17): She wanted you to like her.
(A.18): Or did you like her? (laughter)
(G.V.): Very good, now you are examining me! (laughs)
(A.19): She flirted with you.
(G.V.): It was very interesting to observe that when all the other patients spoke German, they addressed the person who under-stood them and was translating to me, but most of the time she was looking directly at me while speaking German, which shows a specific sort of sensitivity. Obviously she feels that I am the one who is going to make the decision, and she wants to establish contact with me. She wants to make sure that she understands the entire time what I say, what I think, what my reactions are, etc. She is clearly not indifferent. She said in the interview that she was perceptive. Judging from her behaviour in the interview, you also see that she is an exceptionally sensitive person. The more sensitive a person is, the more aware they are of what is going on in the interview. Despite the fact that I do not understand a word of German -she could see that because of the translators – she still directed the conversation to me alone. This shows a certain sort of naivety. If you think about it logically, you don’t usually speak