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marriage. But because she is weak and unable to make decisions this is no simple matter.
Some of you who I’ve had many years ago in other seminars may recall me having talked about the Husband Syndrome. This case is a good example of the Husband Syndrome. The woman is weak and unable to make decisions. She feels that she cannot stay with her husband because she no longer loves him, and yet she stays. Her reasons are generally practical ones: children, financial considerations, security, position, social standing, etc. Her inability to leave leads her to become sick. The spectrum of illnesses to which she is susceptible is large, from simple health problems such as headaches right on up to psychosis. Of course, this is never a simple matter, and those not involved can easily talk of divorce. Usually the wife is still quite young and would have no trouble finding another husband, but she is not in a position to understand. No matter how much you talk to her, her own insecurities and lack of faith in herself will override all your good arguments. That’s why treatment in cases like these is a long process. The remedies you give this patient must help her build up enough strength to enable her to free herself from the jail she’s in. Her husband has complete hold of her, and her will is paralyzed by his dominating influence. You have seen the husband. Did you notice how strong he was? Remember how passionately he spoke? His attitude was not at all what we would call objective. You can discuss things with someone if they are at least a little bit objective, but with the patient’s husband, no amount of talking would ever really get through to him because his ideas are already so fixed, subjective. This is clearly a very difficult situation. The beauty of Homeopathy is that you can help patients even in such difficult cases as this one, because you have the remedies at your disposal that will help strengthen her natural defensessuch a patient might one day be in the position to say, “Wait a moment, I’ve had enough! I don’t want this psycho-sis anymore!” In this case, the patient’s symptomatology during a psychotic phase is really a secondary consideration. What is