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The Celle Seminars – Page 79

We see a lot of suppression here and there is no real communi-cation taking place between them. A person like this patient – a person who has a lot of feelings – needs to be able to communicate and express herself. The patient feels that her husband has put a shield around her which hinders all her attempts at communica-tion. Do you remember when I asked her those questions about her conversation with the Presbyterian? You saw how she blushed, how she laughed? There is no question that she enjoyed talking to him, despite any protest to the contrary. It is not that she enjoyed talking to the young man for sexual reasons, rather she enjoyed talking to him for simple, human reasons. It is a pleasure to com-municate with someone you like, particularly when they seem to like you as well. This deprivation of basic human contact and her need to communicate are the underlying dynamics at work in her illness. Her husband conjures up ideas about the young man while sitting at home, and then he goes to the church and provokes a scene based not on facts, but on his fears.
This proves to be traumatic for the patient. Why? Because she feels herself to be unjustly and unnecessarily restricted in her freedom to interact with others. She had done nothing more than make a small attempt to escape the shield her husband had put around her. So, we will be searching for a remedy that tries to overcome the oppressive influence of others, precisely because this sort of resistance is not allowed to her naturally. The patient is not normally an aggressive person, she only becomes aggres-sive during her psychotic episodes. Although at those times she throws and breaks things, cries and acts out, this aggressive behaviour pattern does not characterize her personality. Gener-ally, the patient is quite sedate, passive even, because, despite her situation, she does not stand up and fight – neither against her discontentment, nor against her husband.
I look at disease in a 3-dimensional way, not just from the angle of microbes, pains, etc. From that I see that her defense mecha-nism in order for her to survive spurs her to take action. She has to do something to save herself. What can she do? The answer