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The Bern Seminars – Page 65

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(G.V.): I pretend I don’t understand anything, that I don’t under-stand what he is trying to get at. I stop the discussion because there is no sense in going further. If he asked me: “If she has a dream about me, what would you say? Is it good or not?” I’d have to give an answer; so I am in a very bad position, that is why I stop the discussion. Now, what has happened? I will tell you the story. I stayed over in Berkeley a few more days, and during that time the practitioner informed me that the leukorrhea became tremendous. What was the problem? Not the woman herself, but rather her husband, who wanted her to take supposi-tories to stop the leukorrhea. The therapist said that the husband was on the telephone three times a day demanding to know what was happening. He was very aggressive, and he wanted her to be treated with suppositories to stop the leukorrhea. It is very interesting. The therapist asked “Doesn’t he know that if the leukorrhea stops, you will be back in the same state? She said: “Yes, I explained that to him, but he still wants me to take the suppositories. What shall we do about sex?”
He has not had sex for several months, and now after only a few days he is worrying about not having sex. You see the sub-conscious thing, what is happening? You have to perceive and understand human nature and not only be able to forgive, there is no question about that, but you also have to handle the situation: he is going to press her to go back to the state where she was, and he’s going to press very hard for it. You will have to decide whether you will stand up for her to stay healthy, or whether you will stay calm and say that it is okay to take suppositories. It is a big responsibility once you know what you know. That is why this knowledge is a burning knowledge. You have something very powerful, and that puts you in a very vulnerable position. That is why we have to understand what we are doing, what tools we are using; it is just one remedy at a time. If the leukor-rhea goes on for two, three months, she will be another person completely, she will have children, she will have this husband