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Classical Homeopathy for Anxiety and Jealousy – page 202

  1. Chapter Jealousy

G.V.: We will speak about jealousy and the differential diagno­sis. But before we speak about jealousy, I want to ask whether you think jealousy is pathology. Is jealousy, the feeling of jealousy, pathology or a natural feeling? (audience is silent)

The answer is difficult. We cannot say it exactly. So therefore we have to find out what we mean when we say we treat jealousy. Because if we say every person who feels jealous is in a patholo­gical situation, it would be a mistake in my opinion. It is within human nature to feel that whatever is ours is ours. And we don’t like to share it with others. So, within some limits, this is a natural phenomenon.

Let us go to the idea of jealousy within a relationship, between two people who love each other and who feel jealous. We have to admit that if we don’t feel jealous, there are two possibilities… (audience laughs).

You know the first one: it’s not really love. But in case we say we really love, but we don’t care, we aren’t jealous – then we need a remedy, (audience laughs)

Because indifference in that situation is also pathology if you are in a relationship, especially an erotic relationship. Why do I say “Erotic”? Because eroticism contains the idea of desire for each other. The sexual desire. What is Eros? Eros is the desire to have something that does not really belong to you. (giggling in the audience)

You are in a situation where you really desire that this particular person will become yours.